Archive for August, 2011

United or Divided States of America

Are we truly united or are we divided?  I’m confused, are you?  Why is that we only have two parties?  Why is it that each of these parties doesn’t speak the same language?  Why is it that they don’t have the same agenda?  An agenda that should be united in equality for all Americans.

I want a team called the Republicrats!  You see, a team works together for the good of everyone.  A party is a gathering where each person does what makes them happy, and that’s what we have now “A Party”.  Our government is having a party at our expense.  No one in either party is suffering.  None of them are lacking.  None of them ever vote to have the same benefits or pay, or should I say lack of benefits or pay that the majority of Americans have, or do not have.

I’m also tired of the lies, both by those for and against our system.  We need to stop the exaggerations and outright lies to make a case.  So here are some facts about what the House and Senate receive.  There are 535 members of Congress: 100 Senators and 435 Representatives.  The District of Columbia has one non-voting Delegate in the House of Representatives.

The current salary (2011) for rank-and-file members of the House and Senate is $174,000 per year.  Members of Congress receive retirement and health benefits under the same plans available to other federal employees.  They become vested after five years of full participation.  You may have read that Members of Congress do not pay into Social Security.  Well, that’s a myth.

Prior to 1984, neither Members of Congress nor any other federal civil service employee paid Social Security taxes.  Of course, they were also not eligible to receive Social Security benefits.  Members of Congress and other federal employees were instead covered by a separate pension plan called the Civil Service Retirement System (CSRS).  The 1983 amendments to the Social Security Act required federal employees first hired after 1983 to participate in Social Security.  These amendments also required all Members of Congress to participate in Social Security as of January 1, 1984, regardless of when they first entered Congress.  Because the CSRS was not designed to coordinate with Social Security, Congress directed the development of a new retirement plan for federal workers.  The result was the Federal Employees’ Retirement System Act of 1986.

Members elected since 1984 are covered by the Federal Employees’ Retirement System (FERS).  Those elected prior to 1984 were covered by the Civil Service Retirement System (CSRS). In 1984 all members were given the option of remaining with CSRS or switching to FERS.

According to the Congressional Research Service, 413 retired Members of Congress were receiving federal pensions based fully or in part on their congressional service as of Oct. 1, 2006.  Of this number, 290 had retired under CSRS and were receiving an average annual pension of $60,972.  A total of 123 Members had retired with service under both CSRS and FERS or with service under FERS only. Their average annual pension was $35,952 in 2006.

Okay now that we have some “Factual” information what do we do with it?  First we may want to consider that no one in Congress serve more than 4 years.  This eliminates any government retirement spending.  Next we consider eliminating the number of Congressmen we believe we need.  We do not need to pay and support 535 elected officials, who do not have our best interests at hand and can’t ever agree.  Perhaps fewer people will have the ability to come to an agreement.

Let’s begin with having only one Senator per state and maximum of four Representatives per state based on percentage of total population of the U.S.  This would eliminate 285 positions, saving an average of $50 million in salaries.  We could also eliminate an average annual pension of those eliminated positions of $36,000 a year each for a total of $10 million a year.  Then there are other additional benefits and support they receive for health plans, expenses for travel, administrative staff, and office, and more that I am not going to research or elaborate now.  I’m guessing that these additional costs could be another $50 million a year.  So what could we save, by my modest calculations, more than $100 million a year.

Let’s also realize that many of those in government office are out for themselves.  They have huge egos and spend an inordinate amount of time campaigning.  Most don’t read, or have time to read, all the bills put forward each year, many unnecessary, and many mired in legalese that no one understands.  And there is no real plan that I can see.  Typically what is being done is to fix the mistakes they made.  As we can see any corporation that is managed the way government is managed, or should I say mismanaged, would be out of business.  Which we are if it weren’t for the fact that we can print the money we need.  How ludicrous is that?

So don’t you think it’s time to form another team, not a party, for the people, for US!  It is proven that with a combination of people from diverse backgrounds and diverse education, abilities, ages and levels of income we can come up with a plan that works better than anything we presently have or will ever get based on history and the lack of our present representatives willing to cooperate.

All you Republicrats out there take a stand.  Who is with me to create a REPUBLICRAT website and a logo to match?  Let’s make the changes necessary to get back to basics and manage this country with compassion and love for all, and of course be fiscally responsible.

Contact me at arthurjames@TheCoffeeHouseCoach.com for a United America.

RelationshiP or RelationshiT

Be Happy

When we say the word relationship we typically think of a personal connection with a spouse or significant other.  However, there are many other relationships such as with your co-worker(s), siblings, children, parents, friends and even those people who come into your life for just a few moments each day, or each week at a store, or who come into your home to provide a service.

Of course the ones we think about the most are those relationships where we are in contact on a daily basis.  The question is how much do you really think about the relationship that exists between you and that other person?  Of course if your relationship is a good one where you get along most of the time, where you communicate well with one another, and you have a fairly strong bond there is usually little to think about.  Then there are the other relationships, or should I say relationshits.

Most of us give little thought to our relationships except when we are forced to.  Then we are forced into a situation were we typically act like the other person needs to change their attitude.  At some point in our lives we must face the fact that our relationships may require some effort on our part to keep them healthy, vibrant, interesting and fun.  Actually, you need to be 100% responsible for your relationships.  If you don’t those seemingly strong relationships can wither, and die, or become a relationshit.  And I know that’s not what you want.

There are many questions to ask yourself, and I’m going to help you get started. So to begin ask yourself the following questions of each, and every relationship you have. You may think of a few more questions.  Here’s a hint, when you are answering these questions pay close attention to how you feel.

  1. What do I expect from myself and the other person?
  2. How do I communicate my expectations?
  3. How does the other person communicate their expectations to me?
  4. What are my feelings and opinions of each of them?
  5. What improvements would I like to see in each relationship?
  6. Why am I in this relationship?
  7. Do I have to continually watch what I say or can I be open and candid?
  8. How do I feel immediately upon thinking about or seeing this person?
  9. Is this relationship occasionally or often a problem?
  10. Do I value this relationship, and why?

The feelings you had when answering will tell you a lot about that relationship, and what you must do to either heal it, or forget about it.  What I’m asking you is this, “Do I need, or want this relationship to exist”.  Then ask yourself, “What am I willing to do about it”?

Of course the more intimate the relationship the more contact we have and the more we receive and give attention to it.  They say that opposites attract, and while there may be some validity to this, opposites usually take more work, and certainly more work, and understanding.  While being an opposite of someone can bring you new, and exciting things, and you can learn new ways of being, and doing things, there are also the challenges of wanting to do, and allowing doing, things in a different way. Subconsciously, our minds could be telling us that this is an opportunity to become a more complete individual, by causing us to see, and understand those things in life that are most difficult for us to deal with, and overcome.

Once you understand your personality, and the other person’s personality then you will have a better understanding of how you will get along, and be able to relate to one another.  Here are two places to go to that will help you understand who you are, and your personality type.  http://www.personalitypage.com and http://thecoffeehousecoach.com/get-inspired/personality-test/ Try it, and then ask those other significant people in your life to partake as well.  Perhaps this will lead to a better and happier relationship for both of you.

One final thought to remember.  You cannot change someone else you can only change yourself so I will share two quotes that I believe sum up what I’m talking about.

“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”  Gandhi

“A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still.”  Ben Franklin

Think about it and then take time to improve your relationships it will make your life so much happier.  RelationshiP or RelationshiT, which will you choose?

Arthur J Tassinello

Author of “Quantum Shift into Greatness”